![]() ![]() She explained that she was inspired to think and dream about her future and move on, instead of remain stuck in the past and in the pain. She told me how grateful and loved she felt by her friends who came out to support her in droves that she hadn’t anticipated. That she felt love even though she lost at it this time. ![]() She told me she was happy, even though she was sad. She told me she didn’t regret taking a chance on love. She told me how she learned so much about herself, about what she wants and doesn’t want, about how she was able to love herself through her own mistakes and humanness in the relationship, how even in the face of someone else’s anger and rage she was able to feel love for herself and her partner and set appropriate boundaries, how she took responsibility for her part in things, how she let go of blame, how she tried and gave it her all. With eyes full of tears and a simile on her face, she thought about it for a moment. I asked her how the universe might be conspiring in her favor. To practice self-compassion, from this place you will see you have more understanding for others too. For me this thought is like the full moon in a dark sky, just like tonight, reminding me to follow the light. I told her about the universe and it’s kindness to me even in dark times. Look at the strength in her vulnerability and ability to feel her way through this. I watched as she moved through the waves of emotions and was struck by her ability to be brave in a dark moment. I listened to her stories of love, joy, hope, disappointment, misunderstanding, pain and despair. I cried with her, hugged her tight and spent many nights with her on my terrace in France just letting her talk it all out. ![]() Just a few days ago she couldn’t see how she could ever feel good about this break-up, she loved him deeply. What if that were true? How would you feel different if you believed this thought? What are you going through right now that you could see as the universe conspiring for your highest good? ![]()
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